If a girl is a Southern Belle, how can she show this to others? I want people to think of me as a Southern Belle.|||She is kind and gracious but not a doormat.
She does not engage in idle gossip, talk badly about others, spread rumors or break a confidence. She never publcly shows that her feelings are hurt or that she's angry. (She calls her mother or sister when she wants to bad mouth people %26lt;it's called "venting"%26gt; or can't stand not telling anyone, because "they never heard it," if asked)
If she dislikes or hates someone, you'll never know it, because she will treat them with the same courtesy and respect that she treats everyone else. If she can't, she'll avoid them completely.
She knows her manners.
She calls her adults "ma'am" and "sir" if she doesn't know their names.
She says "thank you" with a big smile on her face when someone (male or female) holds a door open for her.
She does not hesitate to compliment or congratulate another person.
She is not (usually) jealous of others achievements or worldly goods. If she is, you'll never know it.
She is kind to children, the elderly and animals.
"Charity work" and helping the less fortunate is second nature to her.
She is a woman of her word. If she say she'll be somewhere or do something, it will happen.
She dresses modestly (but not frumpy). Southern Belles know that clothing that "hints" is more interesting to decent men than the kind that advertises what she has.|||A southern belle wouldn't be concerned with what you are concerned with. So FAIL.|||eat biscuts and no how to make fried chicken
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